There is a stereotype perpetuated in our society that women are difficult creatures to understand, but the truth is that men are no easier. Just when you think you have them all figured out, they up and change everything, leaving you scratching your head.
You thought everything was going fantastically, that your relationship was growing the way it should, and then something happened.
If you feel like everything changed, you don’t understand why, and you aren’t getting any answers from him, there are ways to tell if he is still in love with you.
Most of us know the difference between loving someone and being in love with them, but sometimes, as a relationship progresses, it is a hard line to distinguish.
If he has suddenly stopped being affectionate, attentive, or loving, and you are worried that he has just fallen out of love, take heart: there are a vast number of reasons that guys alter their behavior toward the women they love, and it doesn’t necessarily mean that he doesn’t love you anymore.
To figure out if he still loves you, ask yourself these 25 questions. Your answers will likely spell things out.
#1 Is he stressed out at work? Often, a guy can’t separate his home life from his work life. If he is under a lot of stress at work, it may be spilling over into your together time. That can make even the most connected couple feel disconnected.
#2 Does he do little things for you? If you notice that the coffee maker is full of water, or that your windshield wiper fluid is full, that is a sign of love. Men may not be able to verbalize their love for you, so instead, they find ways to show you by doing things.
#3 Does he come home at night? Instead of staying out with friends, does he always come home to you at night? A man who is still in love will find a way to get home and lay next to the woman he wants to wake up to.
#4 Does he ask how your day is? If he is still interested in how your day went, or listens to you when you have had a bad one, then he is still in love with you.
#5 When he talks, does he use phrases like “we” or “our”? If you haven’t noticed a change in the way that he labels you as a couple, then it is likely he isn’t planning on going anywhere, because he still loves you.
#6 If he’s having a bad day, does he confide in you? If he is confiding in you when he has had a bad day, he still considers you an integral part of your partnership. A man is not interested in sharing his feelings with someone he doesn’t love.
#7 Does he still ask your opinion? Before making major purchases or decisions, does he first check with you to see what you think? When a man is in love and intends to spend his life with someone, he cares about what they think and respects their opinion.
#8 How long have you been together? There comes a time in a relationship when things start to change. You go from excitement to the daily grind. If you have been together for a while, it may just be that you need to put some spice back into your relationship. He may just be taking you for granted.
#9 How are you acting toward him? If you are reaching out to him and he isn’t receptive at all, it is a different story than if you are standoffish, thinking something is up. It may be that you see your own actions mirrored back at you. Often, we are so concerned with the way that others are behaving, we fail to see how our behaviors are bringing about a certain reaction.
#10 Is he hiding his cell phone? His cell phone used to be on the nightstand every night, but now you can’t seem to find it. That is not a good sign. When a guy is secretive about his phone, he doesn’t want you to accidentally see something that pops up, or for you to go through it. That doesn’t necessarily mean that he is cheating, but he may be discussing plans that don’t have anything to do with you.
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